If someone wants to be a male prostitute, what he should do?
A handful of my gay friends are working as, or used to work as, escorts. They love talking about it.
I'm assuming you're looking to service men:
Never work for an agency. With good pictures, you can do just as well on rentboy.com. And the agency will just take a big percentage of your hard-earned money. If you're concerned about safety, tell a friend where you'll be. Escort agencies don't care about your safety.
You can figure out the price by what the other guys on rentboy.com are offering. From what I understand, the going price for a healthy/attractive escort in NYC is about $200 per/hour.
What to expect? My friends say it's "so much fun." There's something to that, but I don't believe them completely. They enjoy the money, flexibility, and glamour of it all. I don't think they completely enjoy the objectification and the occasional weirdos. That said, they get to choose their dates... they say most of the guys were cute-to-fine looking. You might need a second job until you have a stable client base.
Since you're working with your body, your health (mental and physical) is the most important thing. Don't forget that. As I said before, have a good support network that you can vent to and don't get addicted to drugs/alcohol. It's a big problem.
Good luck! Stay healthy!
I'm assuming you're looking to service men:
- move to a city with a large professional gay male population - NYC/SF/LA/Chicago are good choices
- sign up for an account onhttp://www.rentboy.com/
- specify what you're looking for in your dates
- always use protection for everything
- don't get addicted to drugs and/or alcohol
- have a project/passion/whatever in life that you're pursuing while working as an escort so you don't get sucked into the lifestyle
- have a good support network that you can be "real" about your job with and/or a shrink
- buy health insurance (If you're working with your body, you'll need it!)
- maintain your health and looks by working out
- get good pictures of you - as a friend who is a photographer, or get them via a modeling website for cheap - that said, lots of clients might be more into the amateur shots you can take at home
- never feel obligated to do anything you don't want to do
- leave if a client is disrespectful or you feel threatened
- only solicit via the internet ever
- keep the number of a lawyer handy in case you have a run in with the law - this is unlikely if you only find business via the internet
Never work for an agency. With good pictures, you can do just as well on rentboy.com. And the agency will just take a big percentage of your hard-earned money. If you're concerned about safety, tell a friend where you'll be. Escort agencies don't care about your safety.
You can figure out the price by what the other guys on rentboy.com are offering. From what I understand, the going price for a healthy/attractive escort in NYC is about $200 per/hour.
What to expect? My friends say it's "so much fun." There's something to that, but I don't believe them completely. They enjoy the money, flexibility, and glamour of it all. I don't think they completely enjoy the objectification and the occasional weirdos. That said, they get to choose their dates... they say most of the guys were cute-to-fine looking. You might need a second job until you have a stable client base.
Since you're working with your body, your health (mental and physical) is the most important thing. Don't forget that. As I said before, have a good support network that you can vent to and don't get addicted to drugs/alcohol. It's a big problem.
Good luck! Stay healthy!
Originally Answered: If I want to become a gay male prostitute what's the best way to look into it?
I would ask you to rethink that decision. Not because I'm judging you, but because it entails handing your body over to someone you don't know on a regular basis for the use of them pleasuring themselves. Assuming you have features that others will want to pay to ejaculate on and in, those features will be all they see. You will be devalued to a piece of meat for the purpose of sexual pleasure.
I think you should have the right to do what you want in this manner. I have known two (what are known as) high end prostitutes in my life. Both were females and while there is a very different set of risks and emotional dynamics in how males and females perceive and digest sexual activities, the fact is: being treated like a fuck-hole by strangers is not good for anybody.
The average kinds of clients that seek out prostitutes run the gamut of physical and psychological types. You may get to choose which ones you want, but the fact stands that it's not romance and it's not the kind of sex you get when you mutually pursue the company for the evening. You're a product, being bought and used.
And I haven't even talked about the risks of disease.
That being said, I'd suggest maintaining very strict hygiene standards and weekly blood tests with a local clinic. You have a responsibility to yourself and to the community NOT to be a reincarnation of Typhoid Mary. If you establish yourself reputably, with strong client standards and professional behavior -- you'll at least remove some of the risks to your security.
You will need to live in an area where high-end professional male prostitutes can flourish unmolested by gangs or the law. In the USA that's essentially San Francisco or Las Vegas. Even still, it's illegal in both places -- but the local law enforcement doesn't chase this kind of "one man show" down unless you start doing a lot of dangerous stuff. Most people in these cities work on very strict rules of confidentiality and discretion. They get referrals from within their clientele base and to break into that circle, you have to start -- probably -- with something like Craigslist or the local newspaper.
I think you should have the right to do what you want in this manner. I have known two (what are known as) high end prostitutes in my life. Both were females and while there is a very different set of risks and emotional dynamics in how males and females perceive and digest sexual activities, the fact is: being treated like a fuck-hole by strangers is not good for anybody.
The average kinds of clients that seek out prostitutes run the gamut of physical and psychological types. You may get to choose which ones you want, but the fact stands that it's not romance and it's not the kind of sex you get when you mutually pursue the company for the evening. You're a product, being bought and used.
And I haven't even talked about the risks of disease.
That being said, I'd suggest maintaining very strict hygiene standards and weekly blood tests with a local clinic. You have a responsibility to yourself and to the community NOT to be a reincarnation of Typhoid Mary. If you establish yourself reputably, with strong client standards and professional behavior -- you'll at least remove some of the risks to your security.
You will need to live in an area where high-end professional male prostitutes can flourish unmolested by gangs or the law. In the USA that's essentially San Francisco or Las Vegas. Even still, it's illegal in both places -- but the local law enforcement doesn't chase this kind of "one man show" down unless you start doing a lot of dangerous stuff. Most people in these cities work on very strict rules of confidentiality and discretion. They get referrals from within their clientele base and to break into that circle, you have to start -- probably -- with something like Craigslist or the local newspaper.
- Avoid drugs
- Get weekly blood tests
- Be safe -- sexually
- Stay professional
- Take some kind of martial arts classes (which will keep you fit, but keep you ready to defend yourself)
- Never compromise your physical security
- Stay in well-traveled places & hostelry
- Rethink your life
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